Hey guys, welcome back to my blog. Welcome to the sex education series. There have been a lot of questions about my questions. The sex education we get in high school or secondary school is almost always limited to heterosexual sex. Makes sense that a lot of you have questions about safe lesbian sex, gay-sex, just sex in general. But it’s going to be multiple episodes to this sex education series. Today, I’m starting with how to have safe lesbian sex in the future. You can expect to read blog about masturbation and actual sex positions. My focus will be on safe sex practices, not just for queer couples, but also for heterosexuals. Of course, I won’t neglect that, but you do get some kind of education on that in high school.
To Raise Awareness About Sex
To raise awareness about sex, I’ll be covering sex topics, but I won’t ignore the rest. Everything surrounding sex is the same sexy stuff, no matter who you’re with. While I’m not a doctor, a sexologist, a therapist, or anything. These are questions I’m going to answer from research. Just the knowledge I’ve gained from life, and having sex and sharing things with other people, and obviously resources online, that I’ve actually done a lot of research on. My life and my stories aren’t just going to be thrown at you.
I’ve done a lot of research just to make sure that everything in these article is accurate before we get started. Please give a huge comments to this blog if you think this sex education series is a great idea and something I should do. You can also suggest me the other topics via comment. That’s why I’m going to keep doing it. I won’t if I don’t.
Safe Lesbian Sex
Let’s get into how to have safe lesbian sex now, I’ll try to answer your questions. We’ve all been there… having sex for the first time, losing your V. Card, sex with someone new. When you’re sexing with someone new, whether you’re a virgin or not, you find out all kinds of new things about them. They have a whole new body, and they have new needs, new desires, new styles… they’re all completely new. I remember, for example, when I slept with girls for a while and then slept with a guy again, I was like, wow, this feels new again. Honestly, sleeping with someone for the first time is really similar to sleeping with a new sexual partner, but it’s also terrifying. However, I’m going to try my best to educate you guys as much as I can to relieve some of the stress and anxiety.
The first thing I’d like to cover in this blog is consent. This is the first thing that I really need to get out of the way. It’s the most important thing in my humble opinion. And as Stevie bobby would say consent is sexy, it is super important to make sure that the person that you’re about to get that is also ready and willing to have sex with you. Sure they may have been ready to make out with you or hold your hand in public, but how do you know for sure that there are 100% ready and comfortable having sex with you? I have mentioned this next point before, but people should not ask questions such as, can I kiss you, can I take your clothes off, or can I touch you?
You can stay super hot at the same time as taking the guesswork out of the equation. Furthermore, when you begin this sexual encounter by being open and communicating, and having that consensual conversation, they will be more likely to tell you what they like and do not like or what they want and do not want. That brings me to my next point about communicating.
Communication in Sexual Relationship
In fact, I think communication is essential to being in a successful sexual relationship because, let’s face it, if you can’t express your preferences to your partner, you might end up with a pretty mediocre experience in bed.
Where do I start? I get questions all the time. How do you get things started? What will I do and what will happen if I can’t do this? While most of that will probably come naturally to you when the time is right and things are flowing, going through sex for the first time with someone new can be intimidating, which is why communication is so crucial. You need to ask them questions so you can maximize your chances of being a good partner and having a positive first encounter. Let’s be honest for a second.
Is this feeling good for you
There is a good chance that by the time you are ready to begin having sex with another person, you already know what feels good. Assuming that you understand what I am saying, you have probably already concluded that it is true. It might be appropriate to ask a question, such as “Is this feeling good for you?”. Have you ever enjoyed something or felt most comfortable doing something, and if so, what was it? Is that a reasonable question to ask?
Your sexual partner, as well as yourself, can greatly benefit from such an arrangement. The very first time that you ask questions of your romantic partner can be quite intimidating for you. What would be better than just not saying anything than to stay silent and wonder whether or not what you do to them is even right?
Importance of Body Language in Sex
In addition to verbal communication, body language is also an important part of communication, especially in the bedroom. There is a certain sense of importance attached to language in the bedroom. In addition, you need to pay attention to the way they act when you’re touching them or doing something to them in particular, such as when they grind their teeth, move their hips, or breathe heavily when you’re touching or doing something to them. It is possible that all of these things could be a sign.
Therefore, when this happens, make sure you make note of this and make sure that whatever you do, you do it right so that they feel really good and that they are doing it right. Whenever you do something like that, you can ask them if they like it or not and see what they believe. Even if they say yes, they may say I wish for it to be done a little faster, and/or they may even suggest ways to make it happen in a way to make them feel even more pleased.
Furthermore, you should keep in mind that what feels good for you and might be an orgasmic experience for you may not necessarily be the same for your sexual partner simply because you like that stuff does not necessarily mean that they will too. As for the initial sex with someone, whether it is a new spouse or someone who is losing their virginity .it is possible to feel awkward when having sex with them for the first time. The unexpected can happen at any time.
Kiss in Position
In a kiss, you can get into some funny positions, you can bump noses, you can do some of those things. It is common for funny noises to be made when that happens. It is extremely important to just laugh about it and give them a kiss or just have a good laugh about it. You should not stop slapping your partner because let’s face it, sex should be fun. Neither is it considered a chore nor it is regarded as a task. I do not know all the parts involved in it. My guess is that later on, there will be some laughs about this.
Sexual Fantasies
Also, one can ask their partner if they have any sexual fantasies, as well as telling them theirs. Ask your partner what they get excited about and what doesn’t excite them. So you can avoid that conversations like this can often happen in the lead up to having sex, whether it’s over a message if you’ve been talking to this person for a bit or sometimes in person as well, which can give you a great idea of what to do and what not to do leading up to having sex with them. And while obviously, you want to please this person really badly.
Don’t forget to ask for what you want and tell them what you like in return when it comes to the reverse the open and honest at all times, if something doesn’t feel good or could feel better elsewhere, tell them or even better show them move their hand, face, mouth, position them differently to a place that you know, feels good. Trust me, that is hot. Okay, so now we’ve covered consent and communication.
A Guide to Have Safe Lesbian Sex
Now let’s get into lesbian sex. I’m also happy to feel like a more in-depth blog on actual sex positions and how to do them and what I guess things to try in another blog, but this one’s gonna be kind of general, so I just thought I’d provide you with a few common ones. I’m just gonna grab a couple and put them on here for you now to actually get into a place where you and your sexual partner are going to do the deed. This is completely subjective and it differs from person to person.
However, I think having sex with a new person for the first time is always most comfortable in a safe and private environment such as someone’s bedroom, light some candles, place in music, put a movie on in the background, do things that you would normally do together. You don’t have to make it a big, scary, daunting tough. Just see where the night goes. And if you start making out and things start to get hot and heavy, just see where it goes. to Go with the flow.
Foreplay
Don’t get too stressed out or anything. Everything will honestly happen naturally. If you’re both willing the consents there, the communications there, it’s going to be such a nice night or day or morning foreplay is also super, super-duper important. Um, I honestly think it’s my favorite part of sex with anyone. But yeah, so that will come as well. And that’s super important. But I can do a whole article on foreplay too. You can always just start by touching each other in places. Slowly, keep that conversation up and see where things go. The thing I love most about girl on girl is the possibilities are endless.
It is really fun to use your own body parts to have sex with your partner. When you become more comfortable with your sexual partner you can start incorporating toys and things into your relationship, which I also can write a article about, please let me know when you are ready.
What’s the best way for lesbians to have safe sex?
What are some of the precautions. Some things you can do to ensure that you do not spread the infection to anyone else?
First of all, I would like to thank you for your help. The first thing that you should do regardless of the gender of the person. You are going to be sexually intimate with, um, is to get tested. Um, it’s important too, especially if you’ve had multiple sex partners in the park. It’s important to get tested and to discuss what you’ve been tested for and what the results were or haven’t been tested for as well. You can ask, have you been tested? There’s nothing wrong with that. Again, consent is sexy. Cleanliness is sexy.
Dental Dams in Safe Lesbian Sex
With safe lesbian sex, you can use things like dental dams. Dental Dams is basically a rectangle of um. You can use it to cover your body parts with oral or anything else. You can also use gloves, latex, like little glove ease. Hand hygiene is super duper important, so wash your toys after each use with warm, soapy water. It’s also good to wash your hands before and after sex, which not many people talk about and I doubt they teach this in school either, but to prevent A. It’s always wise to p after any kind of penetrating sex, even oral.
You got to pee after anything like. Because it actually helps clean your urethra from harmful bacteria, which decreases your chance of getting AUTI. That’s not what we want.
Conclusion
Yeah, I guess that was a pretty general article about how to have safe lesbian sex. If the sex education series does well, I’ll definitely grab other topics. You guys want to learn more about and be more in-depth then do comment the topics. What do you think about safe lesbian sex? What did we miss? Did we miss anything important in this article? You may also leave a comment below and share this post to allow others to benefit from these great tips. I look forward to seeing you all next time. Yeah, I hope you guys enjoyed it.
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